Maria Paulina Custódio Interview

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Transcript of Maria Paulina Custódio interview

Title

Maria Paulina Custódio Interview

Interviewee, Interviewer

Custódio, Maria Paulina
Morris, Lorenzo Orozco

Relation

Portuguese Beyond Borders Institute

Date

11/18/2019

Identifier

SCUAD_pbbi_00023

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Speaker 1: Cool. Um, so what's your full name?
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Speaker 2: Maria Paulina Barcelos Custodio
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Speaker 1: Oh, that's super long.
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Speaker 2: Custodio came in because I got married so custodio.
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Speaker 1: okay
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Speaker 2: Came in.
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Speaker 1: I was gonna say that's like four different five different
names. Yeah, my name is pretty. My name is Lorenzo Roscoe Morris. I have
a pretty long.
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Speaker 2: Okay, so that's pretty long too.
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Speaker 1: yeah, I've a pretty long name too. Were you named after anyone
like the story?
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Speaker 2: I was named after my godmother.
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Speaker 1: Your godmother?
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Speaker 2: Yeah. So all of my mom had six children and we all were named
after our godparents.
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Speaker 1: Oh.
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Speaker 2: yeah.
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Speaker 1: That's interesting.
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Speaker 2: So our middle name, I should say, because Maria was like after
my mom, and all of our middle names were after her godmothers. So my name
is Paulina. So my godmother is Paulina.
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Speaker 1: Wow. Interesting, oh man. Yeah, I was named after my dad. I'm
the I'm the third. So it's just like three generations of Lorenzo's.
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Speaker 2: Oh wow.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Where were you born?
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Speaker 2: In Santa Barbara, Azores
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Speaker 1: Santa Barbara Azores?
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: When were you born?
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Speaker 2: In 72.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. My dad was born in 1975.
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Speaker 2: Okay. That's a little..
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Speaker 1: Three year apart. What early memories do you have as a child
in the Portuguese American community or in Portugal?
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Speaker 2: Well, I came over here when I was three. So I was born in 72.
We came over here in 75. So I really don't have any recollection there
until we went back to visit. So I remember coming over
here. My dad worked in dairies. So I remember we moved to a couple of
dairies. We started in Tulare lived in Hanford and Layton, and then I got
married and I moved to Fresno. But it was pretty much
always on a dairy that's where we've always li
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Speaker 1: Wow, interesting a lot of cows.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: When did when did your family immigrated to the United States?
When did you immigrate to like U.S.?
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Speaker 2: April 6 of 75.
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Speaker 1: 75?
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Speaker 2: Yeah. And there was five of us as my mom and dad, me my
brother and sister.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 2: So I'm the youngest
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Speaker 1: youngest?
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Speaker 2: of them. Yeah. We my mom actually had six kids, but three of
them passed away when they were little back in the island. And so only
three of us came, and so I'm the youngest. I am 47.
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Speaker 1: Young.
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Speaker 2: And my brother is the oldest and he is 61. Then I have a
sister in between there. So there's a big age gap because of the three
that passed away.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so sorry to hear.
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Speaker 2: Never got to meet them. They were all you know, gone before I
came around. So yeah.
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Speaker 1: Oh Damn, why did your family leave the Azores?
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Speaker 2: Better Life, I think that's what they would always say, you
know, everybody said it was better over here and my dad did come over
here before he brought us to work and then went back and
got us. I don't know exactly what year that was. Obviously it was maybe
74 the year before 73. But he did come over here to for I think about a
year and then he went back and then that's when the
whole family came.
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Speaker 1: Oh Okay, okay.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: You kind of already answered this one. It says, this is where
did your family settle? Why there actually, it was partially answered.

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Speaker 2: From there you are saying?
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Speaker 1: From here?
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Speaker 2: From here. So we came over here, I believe who came in to San
Francisco.
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Speaker 1: San Francisco.
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Speaker 2: And then we settled in Tulare, couple of different dairies
there.
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Speaker 1: you just moved you settled here because the dairy like work?
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Speaker 2: yeah and I and it's where my parents had their families. some
of their siblings already here. So I think that
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Speaker 1: It was just easier.
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Speaker 2: they just chose to come here. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Oh man. Did your parents or grandparents ever tell you what it
was like to adjust to life in the new country? What stories were passed
down to you regarding their early experiences?
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Speaker 2: Okay my grandparents? No, because they did come over here they
stayed there, my parents I don't know.
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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, see, that's really I mean, that's kind of what our
journey was. We came over here we work. They worked on a dairy. And
that's pretty much what my dad did. You know, his whole life.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Really.
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Speaker 1: You're a member of first, second third generation of your
family to be born in the United States. How important was it to your
parents, that you'd be raised with a strong Portuguese
identity?
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Speaker 2: Well, I was actually born there. So I wasn't born here. And
for that was a big thing. Like, even Yeah, like we wouldn't there's
Portuguese celebrations, there's a whole bunch of Portuguese
different functions we would be involved in. And I try to carry that on
to my kids, too. I mean, that's there. My kids obviously were born here,
but I, you know, we're Portuguese. We're American. You
guys are American, but we're Portuguese. That it's a strong thing that we
try.
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Speaker 1: You don't want to let it go.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. You know.
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Speaker 1: How was it? How was this identity expressed through language,
foods, traditions and festivals. Like,
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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, we do not speak Portuguese at home too much. So
we can't we're trying to kind of do some now which we should have done.
You know them growing up. My daughter is actually
taking Portuguese at City this year. But one of my sons actually does
know a little bit just from him talking and being in the celebration and
hearing people speak.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay.
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Speaker 2: Regarding foods, I do make portuguese foods at home so they
kind of know that part of it.
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Speaker 1: You guys have different festivals and stuff?
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Speaker 2: We do have different festivals, especially here at this hall.
There's quite a few of them that we have throughout the year. There's
mostly regarding saints. So there's I don't know if
you're a Catholic.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 2: Whatever. But there's the St. Anthony celebration. There's the
Holy Ghost celebration. There's Our Lady of Fatima celebration here.
There, St. Peter's.
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Speaker 1: Wow.
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Speaker 2: That's it. So we actually do throughout the year. There's a
lot of celebrations there. So they consider of a mass and then a per
session, and lunch chair for everybody. Okay, that comes in.
It's open to anybody really, that wants to come. It's not just kind of an
invitation. It's just whoever wants to stop by.
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Speaker 1: It kind of far out.
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Speaker 2: It's really not.
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Speaker 1: It's not really that far. This is like, because you don't
really see the time like this, like right on.

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Speaker 2: It's not like right off the freeway to where you see it.
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Speaker 1: Yeah I was like where is it?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you kinda have to know where you're going to get out
here.
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Speaker 1: What? What cultural traditions have you maintained? Why has it
been important to you to maintain them?
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Speaker 2: Well, like I said, going to the celebrations, it's important
because I don't want my kids to lose it. I, you know, I want them to try
to carry on when they eventually have families. Yeah.
And so we want that our heritage to keep going. You know? Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Um, how have you been back to the Azores? What was the
experience like for you?
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Speaker 2: I went back my first time we went, we came in 75. We went back
in 78 which I was still young, so I don't really recall too much. I went
back in 98, which I was already married for a couple
of years. And that was amazingly great. That was really the first time to
I could say I remember and my parents went with me and my in laws. So it
was nice to have them there to explain things and
show us where our house was and where my grandparents lived and all the
stuff where things happen.
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Speaker 1: Yeah that's great..
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Speaker 2: And then we went back three years ago with our kids, and kinda
took them around to where our house was my grandparents house, and we
still have family there. So we visited them and stayed
at their house. And we were there actually for a month.
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Speaker 1: Wow.
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Speaker 2: So yeah.
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Speaker 1: You go periodically? like.
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Speaker 2: well, we're hopefully we're gonna go next year again. So we'll
see. But yeah
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Speaker 1: Interesting, that's great
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Speaker 2: It was nice to take the kids so they could see where we come
from, and how things were there. I think that was our focal point this
time was to kind of explain to them and there's different
islands. So I'm from one my husband's from a completely different one
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Speaker 1: So your husband is from the Azores as well?
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Speaker 2: He is from the Azores as well. He's from a different Island
though, so you have to take a ferry boat that takes a few hours to get
from one island to the next.
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Speaker 1: What are the odds of? Yeah, that's crazy.
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Speaker 2: But bigger odd is that we both came over here when we were
three. And so we came over here in April, and they came over here in
August.
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Speaker 1: Wow. So you guys came like a few months apart. That's, that's
insane.
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Speaker 2: Yeah it is.
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Speaker 1: Trace, if you will, some of your experiences growing up in the
Portuguese American community in the valley throughout your life, like
how was it?
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Speaker 2: Uhm, it was great I mean, like I said, we would do
celebrations. Got to meet other families, you know, that. Not that my
parents knew from that, from the islands that we would actually meet
here that were Portuguese too. It was great just to have that heritage
just to and that's what my like my parents, they never learned how to
speak Portuguese. Your parents. Yeah, they both passed away
now. But we were I mean, like I said, We've been here since 75. And they
never my dad passed away 11 years ago, my mom two years ago, and they've
never learned to speak English. It was just
Portuguese. That's what we spoke.
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Speaker 1: So how was it working?
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Speaker 2: So I went to schools when I had to learn English, which was
very difficult because at home all you spoke was Portuguese. So, but
obviously, eventually, It
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Speaker 1: Wow
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Speaker 2: worked out. But yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's insane no way.
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Speaker 2: It's kinda like, first generation, you know, it's like, my
kids. I didn't have my parents at home to where it goes to where they
could help me with homework or something. You know, they
didn't know any of that stuff. Compared to now. You know, you guys go
home. I I'm already you know, I been through everything here. So it's,
it's a completely different lifestyle.
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Speaker 1: Wow. It's crazy. Of all you have accomplished. What are you?
What are you most proud of? What proud moments do you remember in the
Portuguese American community?
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Speaker 2: I'm very proud for being Portuguese. I am actually, I am here
very illegally. I've never gotten my American citizen papers. So I'm not
necessarily an American citizen. I still am a fu
l Portuguese citizen. So I still have to get my Portuguese passport and
go through all that different lines compared to American passport. But
I'm like, Yeah, very proud of that. They keep this stu
f going, the celebrations, and all of this stuff that they did back
there, the killing of pigs, you know, just different things that
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Speaker 1: wow.
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Speaker 2: They do back in the old country, compared to where I don't
think people used to do here. And they just kind of brought it and
that's, you know.
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Speaker 1: Killing the pigs, what is that you mind me asking?
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Speaker 2: You can kill a pig and you butcher it and it.
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Speaker 1: What kind of people?
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Speaker 2: Well, your family members, your friends and people you invite
you I mean, it's not a celebration of it. Like that's something they
would do you know, like here people people buy their meat
at the stores. Well, they over there, that's what they knew is to kill
their own animals and butcher them and wrap them and freeze them. Well,
that's what they did over here to instead of going to the
store, they would buy the whole animal and butcher it up and then phrases
so.
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Speaker 1: Sounds interesting.
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Speaker 2: So just different things like that. That's like tradition that
we just kept
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Speaker 1: Wow.
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Speaker 2: We obviously do not do that. I did not keep that tradition
going. But it was really neat to grow up still in that my parents would
do.
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Speaker 1: That's pretty interesting. To what extent do you believe being
Portuguese American has shaped the way you have moved through life, both
professionally and personally?
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Speaker 2: I think here, there's a lot more opportunity here than there
is in the islands. Obviously, it's bigger. Islands, you're, you know,
it's a small island. There's only so many jobs there.
There's only so many places to go. So obviously you obviously have a
bigger opportunity. I'm a stay at home mom now. So I have not worked in a
few years we had kids and I just we chose to stay home
and take care of our own kids and raise them. So I did not go to college
here just graduated high school and started working and then eventually
got married and had kids and I just but for people that
do come over here and end up going to college and stuff, there's a lot
more opportunity here for jobs compared to back in the islands.
Definitely.
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Speaker 1: What does being what is being Portuguese American mean to you?
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Speaker 2: I'm very proud of my heritage. Being American is great, too.
There's a big opportunities here compared to the islands, like I said,
that would be.
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Speaker 1: Yeah that one is difficult.
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Speaker 2: really just stay there.
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Speaker 1: How do you See the Portuguese American community today?
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Speaker 2: I see it actually getting smaller,
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Speaker 1: smaller?
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Speaker 2: smaller just because of the new generation. They some of say
my generation is not passing it on to their kids. So a lot of kids are
just, you know, the generations they're are not they're
not moving on. So a lot of it is just falling back. So that's why we're
trying to you know, the ones that do want to be involved are trying to
pass it on to their kids and hoping that they keep it
going.
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Speaker 1: Nice nice. Is there anything we didn't cover you would like to
share?
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Speaker 2: I don't think so.
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Speaker 1: That will conclude our interview.
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Speaker 2: Thank you.
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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I appreciate you.
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Speaker 2: You were perfect for that.

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